On their way to a visit with the oracle, Morpheus says to Neo, "Try not to think of it in terms of right or wrong." Our lessons are always learned by opening the heart and opening the mind. They have nothing to do with rigid concepts and absolutes. The black and white nature of morality is only necessary to an individual ego or collective ego with little or no connection to the intuitive Self. "She is a guide. She is the path. I told you I can only show you the door. You must walk through it." Truth must be known through our individual experience in order to be an operational truth in our lives. That truth then becomes our strength.
The child in the waiting room shows that Self must bend to change what we see. Our beliefs are ways of "seeing." To have power is not to accept the events of our lives as obstacles, but to adjust our attitudes to perceive and accept each event as an opportunity. Change the way you look at things and the things you look at will change.